Blog Stop!

I saw the links of my friends on facebook of their blogs and remembered that even I used to blog.  I just opened my blog and saw the date of my last post. 18 December 2010! I wasn’t shocked but I somehow felt bad and guilty. When I had started my blog I had promised myself that I will post whatever comes to my heart for the minds. It’s not that my heart stopped pumping for all these days and it had no thoughts rather it was filled with many thoughts but somehow I couldn’t share. But fortunately it didn’t. I cared but I also dared..Dared to speak but I faced many oppositions but it was my friends and my parents stood with me and thus I am able to write something today. I think I am getting too personal right now so its time to start preaching something from the heart for the minds.

Friends there are times in our lives when we become really really negative complete pessimistic! We lose hopes, we forget our dreams, and we try to be alone...all alone and we just want to cry and cry. Going through that stage is horrible, especially when you have lived your life cheerfully and with a smile on your face. It’s really difficult to give fake smiles especially when your close ones can identify your fake smiles. But the best thing about this "blog stop" period is that you learn many lessons of life. You become stronger if not physically than definitely mentally and emotionally. Secondly, you learn who were the "real" people in your life and who just pretended to be "yours”. You get some real good advises you can treasure for life not just by others but advices by your own self. In this period one tends to be aggressive and aggression helps in many instances although in some it doesn’t. But, it helps you to be "strong". In this stage you take out your anger on some non living things because they won’t shout or take you to the police for hitting them and you realise your strength how strong you are. Non living things just don’t mean table, chair or bed but you also start scribbling the poor paper. These are some of the advantages of being in the "blog stop" phase. But the biggest disadvantage is that you stop sharing and yeah you stop blogging and tahts why I called this phase as "blog stop"!

But now I won’t stop. The blog stop phase is over and I am going to share. I have already started writing poems again which I had stopped for a month or so. I felt good and my poor diary must have felt really good. I touched her after so many days. People, I would like to say one thing (might end up saying many things)... Bear me! Whenever you go through such phase just remember that "every dog has his day"... There will be time when all the hurdles you are facing right now will disappear and a new sun will arise in your life. There is a morning after night and a night after morning. So, there will be good days after bad days. There is summer after winter and rains after summer (although now we witness rains all the year). But don’t worry, life won’t be like rains. There will be happy moments, there will be sad moments. Just don’t give up! Live every moment with zeal. Because every moment teaches something. Someone told me a very good thing in these days and I guess that has changed my life “don’t get depressed, keep drawing conclusions"...And I follow it. I don’t become depressed but i search for the reasons behind everything and it helps... You find some answers which you never knew. Yeah, There is a possibility that your perceptions and your conclusions might go wrong but not a waste. Every conclusion is a way to new solutions. If you keep on crying only the pillow would get wet and salty. Save your tears for some "happy" moments. Don’t do the mistake of stopping to pen down which I did. Keep on writing whatever and however you feel. Even if whole world is against you and you are with you, no one would dare to oppose you. Be firm and strong and you will overcome this phase of blog stop. I guess that was too much for the day. Be happy and cheerful!
Signing out...
Tanuli...